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You’ve got a crush. And, as much as crushing on someone is super fun, it’s even BETTER if your crush is crushin’ on you back. The only certain way to know, of course, is to ask your crush but that’s no fun, and, um, is also ultra embarrassing! Having a crush on someone who isn’t interested in you only promises a let down, so if you’re vibing on someone who’s tricky to figure out, here are some tips on how to tell if your crush likes you back.
1. He Finds Every Reason to Talk To You
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Does your crush Snap or text you to start a conversation and make a funny joke out of the blue? Does he come up to you and start talking to you just ’cause — and not for any significant reason? You probably aren’t even recognizing what’s going on because you love talking to him so much, but what’s probably going on is that he likes you back.
2. He’s Looking at You. A lot.
Have you caught your crush sneaking a glance or two your way whenever you’re in the same room together? Does he immediately look away if you meet his gaze? If so, that could be a major sign of butterflies, which = crushin’ vibes. On the other hand, if your crush is avoiding eye contact with you — to the point that it’s super obvious — then that could be a sign that he’s trying to keep his crush super secret.
3. He Touches You
We usually find an excuse to have physical contact with those we have feelings for. Whether it’s touching our crush on the arm, or brushing something off his face, or randomly “bumping” into him. You probably do this to your crush, but if you recognize the same from him? Yeah, he likes you.
4. He’s Shy Around You
Is your crush a normally confident guy who goes suddenly super quiet around you? Does he avoid talking to you sometimes, or becomes a blubbering mess around you? Then those are pretty good signs he’s got a crush. If your crush is already shy, it might be a bit more difficult to figure out, but if your shy guy suddenly become more open and talkative whenever you’re around, then that’s a pretty clear sign he likes you.
5. He Answers You Immediately
Texts, Snaps, it doesn’t matter. If you message him, he’ll immediately respond and you can tell he’s super glad to do it. If you have a question for him at work or school, he always helps you out. He might be overly polite, friendly or joke-y, which are signs he’s happy to hear from you. If that’s the case, then your crush is majorly crushin’ on you.
6. He’s Always Around You
Does he make a point to be in your physical space? Like, he’s either walking closely behind or in front of you a lot? Or “finds” a way to sit next to you or be close to you in the same area? Then that’s a good sign he’s trying to get your attention, but in a subtle way.
And, of course, when in doubt: ask your crush! You might feel awkward, but sometimes it’s the only way to really know.